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Contents
IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH Title page
Saturday
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Wedensday
Acknowledgements
YOM KIPPUR IN A GYM Title page
PART ONE The gym
Tom
Lucy
Tom / Ira
Rachel / Ira
Tom
Rachel
The gym / Lucy
Ezra
Tom
The rabbi
Tom
THe rabbi / The gym
PART TWO The gym
Lucy
Rachel
Tom
Lucy
Ezra
Rachel
Ira
Tom
Shul
About the Author
Landmarks
Cover
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Table of Contents
For my baby grandson,
Asa Weissgold,
who already loves books.
a
Saturday
b
Sickness is a foreign country. You are lost there, you don’t know the language, no matter how many times you’ve visited before. Nothing is familiar. You’re alone, but a different kind of alone than usual, because when you’re sick, you don’t have yourself. Your own body has turned against you—it is your enemy now, and no one can fight, and try to destroy, their own body—so you are defenceless.
Sickness is an alternate reality, its own existential state. In it you are lost. Lost not only like a mapless, hapless tourist, but in the sense of someone cursed, doomed, and consigned to hell. There is no hope or salvation for you. You live, when you are ill, in an underworld that healthy people don’t even know the existence of. So there is no one, not even the most loving Orpheus, who can save you.
* * *
Once a month you are struck by a mysterious illness which transforms you from an active, busy, dynamic, productive, energetic, lively, cheerful person to a helpless body on fire, sweating, moaning, its eyes closed, lying in bed waiting passively for the fever to burn itself out. So far it has every time, and for this you count yourself lucky. You’ve never died from this illness. You always recover. Though over the past three years, these episodes have extended longer and longer. Originally, they lasted only two to three days. Then four or five, then six or seven, and twice in the past six months they have dragged on for eight or nine days. You worry now that eventually these attacks of illness will continue for ten, twelve, fifteen days, occupying half of each month. And after that, two-thirds, three-quarters, four-fifths, and before you know it, you’ll be a full-time invalid.
Perry says not to think this way, to stop catastrophizing. Easy for him to say. He’s not the one trapped in a burning body day after day. Be optimistic, be hopeful, he says, pointing out that so far this year the episodes have averaged out to only one week per month. “Only,” he says. On the calendar magnetted to the fridge you violently blot out with a thick black marker all the days in that particular month that you have been sick: the lost, dead days. Each of these seven, or nine, calendar squares, if they were a frame in one of your comic books or graphic novels, would be an illustration of absolute darkness in the dead of night.
At other times you are more philosophical. Maybe losing one week out of four isn’t so terrible. It almost seems reasonable since you and Perry are in a twenty-five percent tax bracket. You’re accustomed to paying the Canadian government a quarter of everything you have, so why not be required to pay, as well, to some higher authority—fate, or some unknown god—a quarter of your life?
* * *
Your illness attacks either suddenly or gradually. Last month was one of the sudden attacks. In January 2000, the start of a new millennium, you were standing at the whiteboard in a classroom, teaching art students a fine point about illustration by sketching it in two frames of a comic strip. Out of the blue the marker in your hand was too heavy to hold, your shirt was drenched with sweat, and you were shivering with cold and also blazing hot. After muttering a semi-coherent apology to your students and then to your department chair’s secretary, somehow you got yourself home. You crawled into bed, whimpering, and lay there for hours, feverish and nauseated, with your eyes shut and ears ringing. And that is how, and where, you were for the next nine days.
Yesterday, on the other hand, your sickness came upon you gradually, sneaking up from behind. It posed as—and you mistook it for—an innocuous fellow soldier on your side of the battlefield, rather than as someone from across the enemy line. You should have recognized it for what it was, your enemy in disguise, but this is hard to do because your illness often changes its spots and begins in a subtle and tricky way. All you noticed at first was a vague malaise, the sense that something was slightly off-kilter. Then life seemed too difficult for you, its demands impossible to meet, even in trivial matters. You went to open a new jar of strawberry jam—you tried and tried but couldn’t. Defeated, you burst into tears. When Perry came home soon after, you yelled at him for leaving his boots in the hallway, and for the next hour found fault with every little thing he did. At supper you recited, sobbing, a litany of all the miseries of your life. Knowing you are not like this when you’re well, Perry, not unreasonably, said, “It sounds like you’re getting sick again.” “I am not!” you screamed at him. “Why are you always trying to make me sick? There’s nothing wrong with me! I’m just unhappy!” You lay on the living room couch with one arm flung over your eyes while he cleaned up from supper. For the rest of the evening, you were mean to him and the next morning you awakened so weak you couldn’t sit up in bed. Your sweat-soaked pajamas smelled sour, you shook with fever but complained of freezing and could open your eyes only a slit. Perry said your face was as dead white as a corpse’s, a sure sign of your illness. Before leaving for work, he brought you breakfast in bed but, grimacing, you pushed it away and immediately slid into a feverish, groaning sleep.
Now, an hour later, you are awake. Here we go again. Day One of this new round of illness.
* * *
No one knows what’s wrong with you. Not one of the doctors you’ve consulted has a clue. All seven of them seem to you as medically insightful as the seven dwarfs might have been. Thanks to the lack of a clear diagnosis, you can’t get a doctor’s note from any of them when you are too sick to work, so even though it’s only six months into the school year, you have already used up all the discretionary vacation days you’re entitled to annually. Your boss Ned, the head of the fine arts department, is fed up with your being sick, and warned you last month that if you miss even one more class, he’s going to cancel your contract and find someone to replace you. “I’ve been more than fair with you,” he said. “I have to be fair to the students, too.”
Today is Saturday, your next class is Wednesday, and you have to be well by then. You have to. You can’t afford to lose this job. Financially—you and Perry have two kids in college and a mortgage —but in another way, too. Having a job means you’re normal. This job of yours is a central pillar of the beautifully normal life you have painstakingly constructed, and without it everything will come crashing down around you like a house of sticks in a storm.
“What if I’m not okay by Wednesday?” you as
“We’ll manage somehow,” he said reassuringly, squeezing your hand. But you didn’t miss the shadow of doubt behind his eyes.
* * *
You’re as exhausted now as when you went to bed last night. You might as well not have slept at all. With this illness, you don’t get refreshed by sleep. You’ve read online that this is a classic symptom of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, one of the many syndromes, illnesses, and conditions that the doctors say you don’t have. Even so, you’ve discovered that, as with CFS, all you want when you’re sick is bedrest, and it’s the only thing that helps you recover. (Recover: get well and re-cover yourself so you look normal again to the world.) Bedrest for several consecutive days is the magic bullet. You know that it’s ridiculous to have the cure for a problem without first understanding what the problem is. How could you fix a bad drawing without grasping beforehand what is fundamentally wrong with it? It’s nuts that you’ve figured out how to get well without knowing what makes you sick, but it’s true, and it’s fortunate. The only path back to health, once you’re sick, is to spend day after day lying in bed, doing absolutely nothing. To the uninitiated, this may sound like fun, a string of days of laziness and leisure, just relaxing and goofing off. In fact, doing absolutely nothing is very hard. You can’t sit up (you lack the strength), and you can’t read or watch TV since both these activities necessitate keeping your eyes open, which requires a great deal of effort. All you’re capable of is lying in bed, immobile, feverish, with your eyes shut. You endure endlessly boring, long, lonely, suffering days while the people closest to you are off at work or living their lives. You are in a kind of solitary confinement; with your eyes closed, you have closed out the whole world, leaving you no stimulation but what’s in your mind. It’s terrible lying here feebly like this, sweating through your clothes repeatedly like a baby wetting itself. But you have your thoughts, emotions, and memories—and these are your prison, yet also your freedom.
* * *
It feels like ten-fifteen at night, but it’s only ten-fifteen in the morning, and you have no idea how you’re going to get through the next twelve hours. Perry, after leaving you your breakfast tray, went to the basement, to work in his den. His den of iniquity. No, it isn’t really that. It’s just his office. He’s an accountant and he works out of your home, it’s cheaper that way. But sometimes you wonder. What if he finds another woman, someone healthier than you, who he doesn’t have to climb two flights of stairs for, three times a day, to bring her her meals? Like his secretary Charlene, for instance, who is cheerful, young, and peppy, wears short skirts and tight sweaters, and is in her sexual prime. (Perry, though tall and attractive, is not.) You’ve heard them laughing together when you were in the living room, right above the office, and he never laughs like that with you. He’s probably not doing anything wrong, and he is allowed to have a life, after all, even if you, at present, do not. It isn’t his fault that you lose a week every month to a mysterious illness while he continues to work, play handball, and lead a full and vibrant life. It feels unfair and you’re envious. But okay, let him have his health—it’s good that at least one of you is healthy—and let him be happy, too. As long as he’s not too happy (meaning happy with Charlene).
Ten twenty-five. You pick at a bagel. You sense, like a dark fog rolling toward you, the approaching boredom and isolation and the gears of your mind preparing to churn out hour after hour of anxiety, misery, and fear. You’ll do anything to escape this—to get some real-life stimulation and connect with something outside yourself. So, although you know you shouldn’t—it will delay your recovery by at least a day—you start to work. You are shaking with fever, your pajamas are drenched and cold (and getting up to change them now would be almost an impossible feat); but you need to prove you are still the person you were before: a capable human being, and not just a worthless blob of feeble, febrile, failing flesh.
Perry brought up your laptop with your breakfast—your computer as dessert. Lying flat on your back, your head tipped up just enough to see the screen through slits of eyes, you briefly answer a couple of emails. Ned asks if you’ll be well enough to teach your class on Wednesday. You have only three days to recover, it’s a gamble, but you tell him yes. You cancel your Monday appointment with a student. You reply laconically to a friend you don’t like and to a cousin you do but who is a shyster. You shut your eyes, drained by all this exertion. When you open them, it’s noon—you’ve slept. You decide to finish preparing your Wednesday class, but your eyes go blurry. You blink them, rub them, open and close them a few times slowly, and then a few times quickly. Nothing helps. You know from experience it will take an hour or so till your eyesight returns.
“Siug aan my aambeie en wag vir beter dae!” you yell. (Suck on my hemorrhoids and wait for better days!) (Afrikaans)
“Tofu no kado ni atama wo butsukete shine!” (Hit your head on a corner of tofu and die!) (Japanese)
“Ik laat een scheet in jouw richting!” (I fart in your direction!) (Dutch)
“Grozna si kato salata!” (You’re as ugly as a salad!) (Bulgarian)
You are practicing your foreign language skills. Curses and insults from around the world are your hobby. Not all kinds interest you: not the “fuck your whore-mother” theme, on which there are many variations (fuck her up her ass, up her toenails, up her nose). The curses you appreciate are colourful, culture-specific, and showing originality or flair. You have no idea how to properly pronounce them, you are probably mangling all these languages terribly, but so what? “Na mou klaseis ta’rxidia!” (Fart on my balls!) (Greek)
You continue, your mood lightening with each curse:
“Go ndéana an diabhal dréimire de cnámh do dhroma ag piocadh úll i ngairdín Ifrinn!” (May the devil make a ladder of your back bones while picking apples in the garden of hell!) (Gaelic)
“Jebiesz jeze!” (You fuck hedgehogs!) (Polish)
”Me cago en la leche!” (I shit in the milk!) (Spanish)
You’re laughing. Happily at first, then a little hysterically. You may be burning up with fever and so frail you can’t sit up in bed, but still, you are powerful. You are a god, or goddess, because you can curse. You can rain down black magic, doom, and ignominy on anyone you want. You lack the power to bless or to heal—yourself or anyone else—but you can curse your illness, and yourself, and this whole sick and sickening world. An ugly salad of a world. A hemorrhoid, a farthole, of a world. You shout this out as loudly as you can: “A hemorrhoid, a farthole, of a world!” The sound that comes out is a pitiful squeak. You rasp out a few more curses, from China, Mozambique, and Chile, and feel like you have now travelled the entire globe and sampled the best (or worst?) of what each culture has to offer. Suddenly you are as tired as if you’ve literally walked the globe’s circumference. And your eyes are heavy, like someone being hypnotized, and getting heavier by the moment.
a When they open, it’s three-thirty. You snack on the oatmeal cookie and crunchy apple slices (already turning brown) that Perry silently left on the floor near your bed—part of your lunch, while you slept. You ignore the rest of it: the tuna sandwich and cold cup of tea. You’re not feverish anymore. Maybe there’s nothing wrong with you, after all. Perhaps the doctors who think you’ve invented this whole illness are right, and it’s time to stop malingering. You have three hours till Perry comes up with supper; put them to good use. Finish preparing Wednesday’s class.
Using your elbows, you try to raise yourself to a sitting position, but you’re too weak and quickly slide back down. You hear a cackle of mocking laughter: “So I’m only a figment of your imagination, you say? I’m not real? Well, we’ll see about that!”
You recognize this curser, this jester with a mask. He is your friend and your enemy. The Sickness Monster, the Sickness God, is laughing in your face.
“How dare you deny me like this! Me—your only true friend. The only one who really knows who you are and tells you the truth. You want proof I’m real? Proof that you’re genuinely sick? Here!”
