Dark Layers (Volume 3), page 10
Branding - Making a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by burning it with a hot metal object, as practiced on livestock. Seen by some as "body art", this technique can be carried out safely; however, it is still likely to be intensely painful. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark Their property. Not for the novice. NO
Boot Worship - The practice of play involving a fetish for boots / shoes. Commonly used for Domination and humiliation practices (i.e., licking or cleaning of the Dominant's boots, shoes or bare feet). NO
Bondage - The restriction of a person's bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretence. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chains, and other restraining apparatus. YES
Breast Whipping - Whipping of the woman's / submissive's chest area using a variety of items which include: floggers, whips, cat tails, paddles, for erotic purposes. YES
Brown Showers (Scat) - The practice of play involving a fetish for including human (or animal) faeces. Although this type of play can be safe if done correctly, it is not recommended for those faint of heart! NO
Bruising - A condition which may occur as a result of pinching or striking. Care should be taken to avoid bruising. YES
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Cages - Most common is the use of a large animal cage. Construction of a cage can be of wood, steel, fencing material. Used to confine the submissive, for play or punishment. YES
Caning - Caning - Mostly made of bamboo, this whip is by far the most painful. Care should be used, as the welts from caning are slow to rise, and blood can be accidentally drawn if not in constant monitoring. Caning should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, and nowhere else on the body. This can be very dangerous , and is not for the novice. YES
Castration Fantasy - There has been much confusion as to the actual meaning of this term. This refers to removal of the testicles; however, some people use it for the removal of any/all sexual organs of either sex. The removal of the testicles is sometimes referred to as Emasculation and a man who has had his testicles removed is referred to as a eunuch. This procedure causes permanent and significant changes to the body. Castration fantasies are actually quite common among the heavy S/m players and are played out in scenes involving cock and ball torture (CBT), permanent and play piercing, and even genital shaving. However, few people actually choose to make this fantasy a reality. It should be noted here that this is a serious surgical procedure and not something someone can teach themselves to do safely. This form of play is very dangerous. NO
Catheterization - A flexible tube used in medical procedures generally inserted into the area controlled by the bladder. This procedure is most often used for "control" scenes. NO
Cattle Prod - An electrical prodding device used to herd animals, more frequently for cattle. Sometimes used in S/m play for "branding" or serious hardcore pain play, and is considered dangerous play. NO
Cells or Closets - Play which involves locking the submissive in a cell-type device and / or closet. Usually as a form of punishment. Not recommended for claustrophobics. YES
Chains - A strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain. YES
Chamber-Pot Use - Scenes involving the use of the toilet for humiliation and / or control. Generally used for medical scenes. YES
Chastity Belt (enforced chastity) - In S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one (male or female) from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. A means of domination over one's submissive. A device (lockable) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation. YES
"Ah, I see." I whisper to myself."You see what?" He says quickly.
"Chastity belt or enforced chastity." I peer up at him and smile but he shifts uncomfortably in his seat. "So you held onto my virginity for a sexual reason?"
"That's not a question."
I roll my eyes at him. "Sorry. Did you hold onto my virginity for a sexual reason?"
"I did like forcing myself to wait Princess, but it was not just for my satisfaction - look at how intrigued you are now from how scared you were back at the Verboten room."
"Yes," I frown, "I suppose you are right."
"I am always right, Princess." He smiles.
"How did you learn all of this?" I ask because I'm suddenly curious.
"Um," he turns to face me so he can see me fully, "that house I took you to is called the DLOS House. It has numerous rooms for different desires. I own twenty-five percent of it - I am the biggest share holder so I eventually got my own rooms once I knew what I wanted. I learnt from the girls that are the house slaves. They assessed me to calculate what I would desire, and I went from there."
I am open-mouth shocked; all I can do is stare at him.
"What did they teach you?"
"Lots of things. How to recognize what I desire, and how to fulfil my desires with and without hurting women -"
I cut him off. "How did you recognize what you desire?"
"Watching movies; listening to music blindfolded while someone touched me; being alone with a woman I fancy and having access to every BDSM instrument so I could try anything and everything. It was a long process but my cult likes their men to be fulfilled in every aspect, they believe it makes us better men."
"Elijah, that is so... bizarre."
He shifts once more and still appears uncomfortable. "Keep reading Princess." He says firm.
I swallow hard and try to continue.
Chauffeuring - Requiring one's submissive to "chauffeur" them around physically in vehicles or other types of transportation. NO
Choking - Compression of the carotid arteries in order to restrict air or blood flow to the brain. This form of play is dangerous. NO
Chores (Domestic Service) - Scenes where the Dominant requires the submissive to perform chores and / or domestic service in either sexually pleasing clothing (i.e., maid outfits) or naked. YES
Clothespins - Small pinning devices used for hanging clothes. Generally used in BDSM play as quite effective nipple clamps, testicle clamps, etc. Great for the bargain BDSM player! Be sure the wood doesn't become stuck to the skin while removing, as it will remove skin from body. NO
Cock & Ball Torture - any form of restraint or orgasm control to a male's genitals. Can be used for play or punishment. Not for the novice, as this can be dangerous. NO NO NO!
Cock Ring - Rubber, metal, or leather type ring used to strap around the base of the cock and balls when soft. Increases blood flow to the genital area during self-stimulation and sex. When released, causes minor pain during recurring blood flow. NO
Cock Worship - Play which involves the fantasy of worshiping the cock. Performed mostly by the submissive to the Dominant. Scenes might include licking and / or fellatio. Even some female Dominants may use strap-on's that are worshiped by the submissive male or female. YES
Collar - A collar worn around the neck to indicate one's submissiveness. These can be made of leather, steel, rubber, rope. Used in scenes for humiliation and / or examples such as dog / puppy or even boy / girl play. YES
Competitions (With Other Subs) - Scenes involving competitive-type sports or play with other submissives. NO
Corsets - A lingerie / binding type device worn to restrict the chest area and make the waist smaller. Worn by early 19th Century women as a form of formal dress to make one's self more appealing to the opposite sex. YES
Crotch Torture - Any form of torture to the male or female genital area. YES
Cuffs - A leather or metal bondage device used to restrict movement. Usually locks around the limbs in order to place the submissive in a precarious position. YES
Cutting - Cutting the surface of the skin with sharp objects, generally a knife, for the thrill, sensation, or pain. To also create decorative scars. The same basic precautions apply as with other types of blood play. Remember to stay away from vital organ areas and genital cutting. See also Abrasion, Branding, or Castration Fantasy. NO
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Diapers - Waterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions. NO
Dilation - The term used when a woman's cervix is dilated (opened) to aid in childbirth. In BDSM play dilation occurs when a speculum (pelvic exam device) is used to open the cervix for medical scenes. Safety Note: Care should be exercised and previous study should be done, before attempting this play. This form of play is dangerous YES
Dildo - From the French term meaning "I please myself). A phallic-shaped device designed for insertion into the body. Early versions were made of stuffed animal gut, leather, or ceramics; however, today they are most commonly crafted of moulded latex. They may be hand-held, strapped on with harnesses to allow women to wear, or permanently placed on other devices to ensure stability during use. Hygiene demands that dildos not be shared with others, or condoms be placed on dildos to prevent the spread of STD's. YES
Dominant - The one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. A Dominant should be well versed in many areas of sexual play for safety. The responsible One. YES only me!
Double Penetration - Play involving the penetration of two or more bodily orifices with various types of devices and / or genitalia, (i.e., penetration of the mouth / rectum / vagina, etc.) YES
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Electricity - Using electricity in BDSM play seems a scary notion to most people, but it can easily be made safe provided two simple rules are followed: a) only use devices powered by low-voltage batteries, and certainly no main-powered appliances; and b) avoid placing any contacts above the waist (including hands or arms), as even small currents to the heart or brain can disrupt those organs' delicate electrical activity with serious consequences. Popular devices include "TENS" units designed for the relief of muscle and back pain; and "Violet Wands" which use a radio frequency discharge, and can be used above the waist provided the face is avoided. Any form of this play can be dangerous. YES
Enemas - A thorough anal cleaning involving a water bottle and tube. Most frequently used in medical scenes although might also be used for control scenes as well. YES
Enforced Chastity - In BDSM / S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. A means of domination over one's submissive. A device (lockable) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation. See also “Chastity belt” YES
Erotic Dance - Scenes involving erotic dancing / stripping as a form of erotic pleasure; i.e., dancing / stripping to music. YES
Examinations - Scenes involving some type of physical examination (i.e. medical exams) where the uses of various types of equipment are used. Safety note: Genital examinations should be done carefully, as serious consequences could result if not performed carefully. This form of play can be dangerous. YES
Exercise - Play which involves forcing one's submissive to exert physical exercise as a form of control / humiliation (may include lifting, running, weight-lifting, etc.). YES
Exhibitionism - Common dictionary term meaning a perversion marked by a tendency to indecent exposure; an act of such exposure; the act of practicing or behaving in such a manner as to attract attention to oneself. Scenes involving the display of public / private exhibitionism in order to exert control and / or humiliation. NOTE: In many countries, this form of play, is illegal and will get you arrested if caught by law enforcement. NO
Eye Contact Restrictions - Restricting one's submissive from any eye contact with the Dominant (i.e., forcing submissive to look away / look down). Similar to military boot camps. Control is enforced by the Dominant by refusing eye contact. NO
"You don't mind me looking at you?" I stare right into his eyes while I ask him this - it's subconscious."I need to see your eyes Anile. I need to see that you are always okay. I have never let another woman challenge me or stare me down the way I allow you to, but I must be sure you always feel safe with me. So no, I am absolutely fine with you always maintaining eye contact."
The feeling I get from his sweet nature is always new to me; butterflies that dance around my tummy, desperation to control my smile so I don't look like a giddy idiot, and heat, bodily heat that escalades over my skin - I love that he wants me to feel safe with him.
"I appreciate that more than you know."
"I know Princess. Many women who are subs are not allowed to look at their masters and it forces uneasiness. I do not ever want you feeling like that."
I smile in appreciation and return to my BDSM book.
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Face Slapping - Involves play where a moderate amount of slapping of the face is used for humiliation / control. This play can be dangerous if an eye is struck, etc. YES
"Face slapping!" I almost shout. "Let's get one thing clear, if you ever slap me around the face I will punch you in yours!" I gasp with a pointing finger almost in his face.He laughs loud. He gently takes my finger and wraps his hand around it.
"This is not funny." I snap.
"No, I know. The face slapping is ticked because you tend to slap me around the face, silly."
Okay, now I feel like an idiot. I frown.
"Oh, sorry." I shrug. "When did you tick all this? Is this not from your previous, um, relationships?"
"I filled this out when I gave you your job back, Princess."
"Oh." Wow!
I'm puce again and I am mortified by my outburst. I also cannot believe he filled this out while being in a relationship with me! How crazy that he practically expected this to happen.
"So you knew we would venture into this?"
"Women are always more curious than men, so I knew you would one day want to try something BDSM."
"That is not true! Men are overly curious and weak!" I gasp.
"I did not say we wasn't." He jokes. "All I am saying is, women like to know the unknown so they can be prepared. Look at you now. Need I say more?"
"Whatever." I joke in a pout.
I hate it when he's right!
Fantasy Abandonment - Play which involves the fantasy of abandonment. Possibly leaving the submissive in a deserted area or public area for a short period of time to exert control and punishment. NO
Fantasy Rape - Scenes where the Dominant fulfils a submissive's fantasy of rape. Note: This type of play can become quite emotional for the submissive, so use extreme care when performing this type of play. After care is extremely important. NO
Fantasy Rape (Gang) - Involves the same type of play with the exception of scene being performed by a group. NO
Fear - Incorporating fear into scenes by using the submissive's own fears as an outline for play. Note: This type of play can become quite emotional for the submissive, so take extreme care when performing this type of play, and aftercare is important again. YES
Fellatio - Performing oral sex on a man's penis. YES
Fisting (Anal / Vaginal) - Play which involves placing or attempting to place the entire hand (or even both hands) in the rectum / vagina. The hand is only formed into a fist, and once fully inserted, requires an extreme gentleness, care, and patience. Involves moving of the fist in and out of the orifice and can be a dangerous technique if not performed correctly. Proper study should be done, before attempting such, and after care is extremely important. This form of play is dangerous. YES
Flame Play - Play which involves the use of fire in scenes. It should be noted here that using any type of fire / flame during scenes is quite dangerous and could result in permanent scarring / burning of the body. Use extreme care when using fire in scenes, as this is extremely dangerous and not to be done by a novice. NO
Flogger - A whip device usually with many "tails". Used on buttocks or back, generally to make nerve sensations greater. Floggers can be used on the genital areas. Can be used for play or punishment. This form of play is not for the novice, and can be dangerous. YES
Flogging horse - A device used to secure one on this bench-like, padded, sawhorse. Usually made waist height, with the use of tethers attached to wall or floor to secure the submissive. A well designed horse will allow open spread usage of the submissive when mounted properly upon. YES
Food Play - Where the Dominant controls amount and type of food allowed to be consumed by the submissive. This includes liquid intake as well. YES
Foot Worship - The practice of play involving a fetish for feet. Commonly used for domination and humiliation practices (i.e., licking / cleaning of the Dominant's feet). NO
Forced Bed wetting - Forcing the submissive to purposely urinate in the bed. Most commonly used as a form of control / humiliation and in age play scenes. NO
